Living Our Lives Symbolically

“When we learn to read our lives symbolically rather than literally, new vistas open to us.  This world, the world of ordinary life, once again becomes ensouled, mysteriously interconnected, meaningful, and fascinating.”

This quote by Robert Johnson appears in his book Living Your Unlived Life.  Johnson was a Jungian analyst, author, and presenter, and a man of wisdom.  I recently had an experience that exemplifies the significance and specialness of “reading our lives symbolically.”  I was walking on a trail in a nature area, and for several seconds a hawk flew above and a few feet ahead of me, flying in the same direction as I was walking.  This happening in itself would have been meaningful to me in that it showed a connection between nature and me.  It was even more meaningful, however, because something similar occurred in the past and I intuitively felt the connection between the two experiences.

Twenty-eight years ago I attended a week-long retreat where the focus was on Jungian psychology and spiritual growth and the interconnection between them.  Some of the authors who have most influenced my life path and the life paths of many other people have written about this interconnection, one of those authors being Robert Johnson.  At the retreat there were group sessions and individual sessions with the facilitator who was a Jungian psychotherapist, as well as unscheduled time when those of us attending could reflect, journal, and spend time in the nature area that surrounded the facility where the retreat took place.

One afternoon as I was walking along a trail through the woods, a hawk appeared and flew a few feet ahead of me.  There were tall trees on either side of the trail, and the hawk flew above the trail and in the same direction I was walking for several minutes.  It surprised me that it flew along the trail for as long as it did; I would have expected it to fly off in a different direction sooner.

I shared this experience during an individual session with the retreat facilitator, and we talked about how this occurring was a synchronicity having to do with following my life path.  Looking at what happened symbolically gave me reassurance that I’ll have inner direction that will help me to do that, as represented by the hawk seeming to lead me.  We talked about how the hawk could be considered my spirit animal.  According to certain spiritual traditions, spirit animals carry wisdom, meaning, and power.

The similarity of a hawk appearing to lead me both recently and 28 years ago was meaningful for me, once again a reminder of the assistance we receive as we travel our individual life paths.  Over the years, I have seen hawks from time to time and when I see them I have been reminded of that first occurrence and what it symbolized.  My recent experience adds another layer of significance.

The Creator speaks to us in many ways.  Reading our lives symbolically, as Johnson says, is one of those ways.

Doing Our Part to Shape the Future

“The past is past; nothing can change it.  But the future depends on the present; we still have the opportunity to shape it.  This is not a matter of employing technology or spending more money, it’s a question of developing a sense of concern for others’ well-being.”

When I read this quote by the Dalai Lama, I thought about how I sometimes recall a past decision I’ve made or action I’ve done and about how, if I had the chance to do it over, I would do it differently.  And of course there are many times when realizing I made a mistake is only clear in hindsight.  No matter what the circumstances, the reality is that I cannot change what has been done, as the Dalai Lama says.  Instead, I must let it be, hopefully learn from my mistake but don’t dwell on it, forgive myself, and focus on the present.

The Dalai Lama emphasizes the importance of having concern for others’ well-being; that in having the opportunity to shape the future by what we do in the present, we think about others rather than only about ourselves.  Some ways that we show concern are by giving our full attention to someone who is talking to us, by being nonjudgmental, by having empathy, and by being willing to assist people when it’s clear they would welcome that assistance. This is true regarding our interactions with loved ones and other people we know, and it is also true regarding each person with whom we come into contact.

It is in the present that we can endeavor to make right decisions and do right actions.  The more we are able to discern direction from our inner voice, to truly believe there is that source of wisdom within each of us, the better we will be able to make those choices and do those actions.  And when we do, they will help to shape the future in a positive way.