Doing What Is Right

“The time is always right to do what is right.”

This quote is by Martin Luther King, Jr.  His words reflect the way he lived his calling as a pastor and as a leader in the civil rights movement during the 1950s and 1960s.

There are certain qualities that are always right:  being nonjudgmental, having compassion, being generous, and having courage are some of them.  And when any of these qualities underlie what we do, they help us to do what is right.

I’ve often read about people who have done courageous and selfless things:  some men and women who stopped their cars to assist an elderly man whose car had gone off the road; a man who by using his paddleboard rescued people in his neighborhood when there was flooding and the water had risen quickly and with little warning; a woman and man who visit areas of their city where there are homeless people and give them food and tell them where there are free meals, medical care, and other resources; people, including physicians and other medical staff, who choose to stay in war-torn parts of the world helping the people there; a woman who was able to talk a man she did not know out of committing suicide.  By helping others in these ways they were doing what is right.

I’m always thankful when I read or hear about such selfless acts.  Throughout history there have been many people who have been courageous, compassionate, generous, and nonjudgmental.  Martin Luther King, Jr. was certainly one of them as were many other women and men in the civil rights movement then and since then.

I believe King’s words refer to both the extraordinary things people do and also to that which each of us can do every day.  Treating family members, coworkers, and others with whom we interact with respect and kindness is doing what is right.  Supporting meaningful causes and charitable organizations that help people in need, by contributing financially and/or by volunteering, is doing what is right.  Living with integrity and honesty is doing what is right.  Using the gifts we’ve been given in the ways we discern our Creator wants us to use them is doing what is right.

Let’s all do our best each day to do what is right.

Our World Needs More Kindness

“Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.”

This quote is by Mother Teresa who exemplified what she suggests we all do—be kind to others.

I have found that small gestures of kindness can have a big impact, both for the person who is the recipient of them and for the person who is showing kindness.  Thankfully, many of us recognize the importance and positive effects of being kind to others.  Ideally, those who do not will change, for our world needs more kindness.

When I was walking on a nature trail recently, a woman who appeared to be around my age was walking toward me from the other direction.  We smiled at each other and noted what a pretty evening it was.  It was a short interaction, and it was a nice addition to the peaceful evening.  It can also be an act of kindness to notice when a person chooses not to make eye contact and to not interact.  When that happens, I believe it shows caring to not say anything and instead to respect what seems to be their wish to have silence at that moment.

The other day when I was a few feet from the entrance of the building where I work, a young man who I do not know waited for me to arrive and held the door open for me.  We smiled at each other as I said thank you.  Another simple act of kindness that made the day nicer for both of us.

Our world needs more kindness.  News stories and other media show people being unkind to others—insults, racial slurs, road rage incidents, threats, bullying, etc.  And people on certain websites and social media cause great harm by the terrible things they say.  One of the best ways we can counteract the harm they cause is by following Mother Teresa’s words each day.

The more each of us does to add to that which is right and good, including acts of kindness, the better each day of life will be for all of us who share this planet.

Living Simply

“Live simply so others may simply live.”

This quote is by Mother Teresa, a person who gave of herself as an individual and through the charitable organizations she founded that have assisted and continue to assist people who are experiencing some of life’s most difficult situations, including poverty and end-of-life illness.  I have written several posts in the past based on Mother Teresa’s quotes.  I appreciate her selflessness, for she prioritized caring for others.  I also appreciate her emphasis on the fact that whatever each of us does that contributes to that which is positive in this world does make a difference.

I don’t know the context of Mother Teresa’s words “Live simply so others may simply live” at the time she said or wrote them.  However, one possibility is that her words were directed toward those of us who have the means to help others and therefore should do so.  We who have a home, sufficient food, a steady income, and whose basic material needs are met should be generous to others rather than just adding to our own belongings and comforts.  There are many people in our world who do not have a home, sufficient food, or a means of earning money, and many others whose shelter is in unsafe areas and who, although employed, have low-paying jobs.  By our choosing to live more simply, we are able to share the blessings we’ve been given and by doing so to help others to have better life situations. There are many nonprofit organizations and church outreach programs to which we can contribute financially.  We can also help in other ways, such as by volunteering at such programs.

Mother Teresa’s words can apply to other areas of concern as well.  They cause me to think about doing our part to decrease global warming.  We who live in wealthier countries cause more global warming than do the people who live in poorer countries.  But many of the harmful weather events caused by climate change happen more often in the poorer countries, including causing drought so that crops cannot be grown to feed the people there.  Our choosing to live more simply by reducing our carbon footprint helps people in poorer countries to have an improved quality of life.

When I think about letting others “simply live,” another idea comes to mind.  We can help people simply live by not judging them, by not repeating negative things that we have heard about someone, and by not thinking of ourselves as being better than other people.  Careless words and actions cause harm to others, including stress and sadness, decreasing their being able to simply live.

So I encourage all of us to think about the ways we can help others by choosing to live more simply.  And then to take the steps and make the changes to do so.