“We are called to achieve personhood–to contribute most to others by becoming who we are, and standing for values that matter in this world, whatever the obstacles history provides us.”
This quote is by Jungian analyst, author, and speaker James Hollis from his book What Matters Most–Living a More Considered Life.
One of the principle concepts of Jungian theory is that each of us has the potential to grow in consciousness. Becoming more conscious persons leads to our living more purposeful and meaningful lives. Dr. Hollis’ words “becoming who we are” is another way of expressing this truth. And his words “to contribute most to others” remind us that becoming more conscious not only benefits each of us as individuals, but also enables us to interact more genuinely with other people, and to better understand, have empathy for, and assist them.
Although Jungian psychological theory is not a religious-based theory per se, its emphasis on individuation clearly correlates with the teachings of many religious traditions, including Christianity. The ongoing life-long process of individuation is basically synonymous with the life-long process of becoming the unique persons the Creator created us to be and using the abilities we’ve been given to help others. By endeavoring to do this, we certainly do stand for values that matter, as Hollis says.
In his quote, Hollis also refers to “whatever the obstacles history provides us.” When I read that, I thought about how all of us have personal histories as well as the history of the larger culture surrounding us, and we are affected by both. Hollis’ words are hopeful, reminding us that we can live according to values that matter despite obstacles.
Standing for the values that matter takes courage, in particular when doing so is not supported by people we care about. By becoming more conscious persons, we are given that courage and many other inner supports to continue our journey of “becoming who we are.”